One of my God moments
He didn’t love me anymore and the truth was, I didn’t love him either. I looked at my wedding pictures and wondered who the woman was smiling into his face. We had been married for only three years, but we both knew our marriage was over. How can you stay married to someone that you can’t stand being in the same room with? After deciding that I would move out of our house and what I would take with me, we decided to meet with a pastor at Village Baptist Church so we could tell everyone that we had even met with a pastor and our marriage couldn’t be saved. We’d never really attended church, but knew that having a pastor agree that our marriage was a beyond repair would help to validate our decision to divorce. God had different plans for us. Even though we couldn’t speak to each other without words dripping with sarcasm and bitterness, we agreed to another meeting, and another and then another. Six weeks later, our marriage was restored. We had a relationship that I had never dreamed possible. Best of all, I knew that it was God who saved our marriage and that He would always be there…for better or worse.

